I never give safety advice based on anecdotes or experience (although I do give examples of my family’s experiences). The best place to get safety information is from the experts, and in Canada, this is Health Canada. They recommend the following:

Never place your baby’s crib near:

• lamps
• curtains
• windows
• patio doors
• blind cords
• electrical plugs
• extension cords
• electrical cords, such as those found on night lamps or baby monitors

As soon as your baby can sit upright or push up on his hands and knees, you should:

• take away mobiles and toy bars
• move the crib mattress support to its lowest level

To avoid the risk of suffocation, you should never:

• harness or tie your baby to the crib, cradle or bassinet
• use pillows, comforters, stuffed toys or bumper pads in the crib, cradle or bassinet
• leave your baby in the crib, cradle or bassinet with:
  • a necklace
  • an elastic band
  • a scarf
  • a pacifier on a long cord

Want to read more? Visit: 
Is Your Child Safe? - Canada.ca
Safe Sleep – Cribs and Infant Products | CPSC.gov

When I was equipping my baby’s nursery, I assumed that anything sold in a baby store was safe.

When you walk into a baby store as a first-time expecting parent, you are confronted with hundreds of items that a sales person will insist are absolutely essential, and many of these items are meant to go into the crib with your baby. Friends and family expect to walk into your baby’s nursery and be overcome with pastel softness everywhere they look. As an expecting parent, we want the safest and most beautiful place possible for our baby to sleep. But are we creating a potential danger with some of our baby store purchases?

Before I answer this question, let me share an experience with you.

One summer night, our family was driving home after a fantastic day spent at an agricultural fair. As we were winding along country roads in the dark, heading home, I felt a wonderful sense of safety and security with my children sleeping in the back seat, my 2 youngest safely attached in their top-of-the-line car seats. After we arrived home, my husband and I started to unstrap our children from their car seats when I discovered that my eldest daughter had mistakenly detached one baby seat from the car as she had struggled to attach her own seat belt in the dark.

Of course, nothing bad had happened on our drive home.  But I couldn’t get it out of my head. If we had had an accident or a sudden stop, my youngest daughter could have been seriously injured, despite the fact that we thought she was in the safest place possible in our car. Every once in a while, it still makes my stomach flip when I think about it. The way I feel about this event is exactly the same way I feel about all the doo-dads I bought to place in my children’s cribs: I thought I had done the best thing for my children and that they were safe, but because of my lack of knowledge , they weren’t safe. It’s true that nothing happened, but I wouldn’t risk doing the same thing again. I know better now.

For example, crib bumpers (or bumper pads) were originally manufactured to address a design flaw in commercially available cribs. Before recent regulations concerning crib manufacturing and sales in North America, crib slats were placed too far apart, which resulted in babies getting their heads trapped between slats. A crib that is manufactured today according to current standards has slats that are a maximum of 6 cm apart, much too small for a baby’s head to get through. Some jurisdictions (such as Chicago and the Maryland) have even banned the sale of crib bumpers.

Experts warn that any "soft bedding" in your baby's crib is a potential suffocation hazard, and these items have been linked to infant deaths. So the answer to the question “What should I have in my baby’s crib?” is simple. There should be four things in your baby’s crib: a mattress, a mattress protector, a fitted mattress sheet and your baby (appropriately diapered and dressed for the temperature). Nothing else.

This seems counter-intuitive. Baby stores are filled with sheets and comforter sets, baby pillows, baby bumpers, stuffed toys and more. Our instinct to create a soft, beautiful environment for our child invites us to make a lot of unnecessary and possibly dangerous purchases. 

When it comes to filling a baby’s crib with unnecessary stuff, my instinct tells me that there is no sense in taking a risk. Even the smallest chance that my child could become caught in or suffocated by a baby bumper or stuck beneath a puffy comforter is too much of a chance for me. Today, knowing what I know now, I would follow Heath Canada’s Guidelines and have nothing extra in the crib.

Want to get better informed?

If you want to know more about keeping your baby safe, visit Is Your Child Safe? - Canada.ca

Any soft bedding introduces risk: Sleep-Related Infant Suffocation Deaths Attributable to Soft Bedding, Overlay, and Wedging | American Academy of Pediatrics (aappublications.org)

Crib bumper risk: Joint Statement on Padded Crib Bumpers FINAL 11.3.16.pdf (cpsc.gov)

An article from 2015 about the risk of crib bumpers can be found here: Infant deaths from crib bumpers on the rise - CBS News

Bans on the sale of crib bumpers (also known as bumper pads): Ohio and Maryland only states to ban baby bumpers (wkbn.com); Council bans sale of crib bumper pads in Chicago - Chicago Tribune